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The truth is that one of the most attractive traits a woman can have is confidence. This blog will discuss the reasons why men like confident women. As the Phoenix MatchmakerI talk to men every day about who they are looking for, what attracts them and what makes a man want to commit to a long term relationship.
Have you heard this fact? Guys like confident women. We already know you like confident men. The quality of confidence ranks high in dating — for both of you.
Why can’t you find a quality guy who appreciates your good qualities? it’s because men want this instead:
In fact, many guys, who are visually driven, think an average looking-woman moves up if she has confidence compared to a model-looking woman who is insecure. But listening to the complaints, you could assume men have a difficult time finding a confident woman. And vice versa. It works the same way for him. That you are confident or that the guy sees you as confident?
That right there could dampen future attempts at being confident in new situations. But read this by Criss Jami:. But especially in dating, hoping the guy will like you, is a trap. But is it his perception, or are you showing up arrogant? Every time you are confident, he may not interpret it that way. Now what?
That makes sense, right? Why is it attractive?
This is how much a guy likes you being confident
Uncertainty feels overwhelming. And relief.
He just became a stand-out in a sea of daily uncertainty. Most toxic relationships have a very insecure person.
Insecurity is out. Confidence is in.
Confidence is attractive to us in sort of a charismatic way, not a smarty-pants way. Do you know where this is headed?
Ding, ding, ding, ding. Double Jeopardy.
The magic is inside little unique you. The essence of you. Your power seat. Every person has it.
Why men like confident women
You have to be willing to risk showing it. Because to let your magic out, you have first to believe you have magic inside of you. Then you have to be open and vulnerable enough to do so. It seems such a tall order, why bother. But if you try to cover up your ability to be vulnerable, you come off as arrogant.
And you as a woman are navigating a high wire with men. You have to have charisma or charm as you let your inner magic out.
But you can do this. To better days! If you doubt your worth, the guy re you as insecure. Knowing your worth is glass-half-full instead of half-empty. Needing external validation triggers insecurity.
Why men love confident women
The guy re that. Vice versa too. Keeping your heart open is warmth.
For him, and especially for you. Keeping your worth acknowledged teaches him who you are and reminds you of your inner magic. Cool is being confident and comfortable in your own skin. in. Felicia C. Christine Rich Hanson Follow. First, which matters most? Next problem.
The confidence gap
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