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Log in. Jump to Latest Follow. ed Mar 23, Thought this would be interesting.
You can be as descriptive and picky as you want. He would be strong in his faith and have a good character. I'd want him to be in shape, but not some macho man who has to look at himself all the time. My perfect guy would also have to be a decent singer and he'd sing to me when I need it. He'd need to have a good sense of humor without being vulgar.
He would always be there for a hug and he would hold my hand in public. He should also be able to listen to me when I'm upset or when I need to vent.
My perfect guy would be the one who I always feel safe and loved when I'm around him. ed Mar 5, Oh this one is too easy. I must be attracted to both her mind and body. Similar outlooks on life, genuine appreciation for each other, our strengths complement our weaknesses, Describe your ideal match examples we both strive to reciprocate feelings for each other. Qualities I look for are honesty, intelligence, loyalty, and an ability to communicate. In short a best friend to share the joys and sorrows of life together and a desire to travel the world. ed Mar 18, ed Aug 27, I would want someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, could laugh at anything and make me laugh at stupid things they say.
I'd want them to be kind to other people and be true to who they are, remaining steadfast in their views but also being open minded. Someone non-judgmental and randomly romantic. I don't want flowers. Do something stupid and unique that only I would appreciate because you know me so well. Tell me when I'm being stupid, but think it's more amusing than ridiculous. Let me get excited and not shut up for forty five minutes and then go lock myself in my room for three hours. As far as looks, I don't care much. Brown eyes are nice, though. OpRise said:. That's an excellent list Aces.
You don't often hear "our strengths compliment our weaknesses" in the "soul mate" crowd, but that's an incredibly important piece, in my opinion.
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ed Mar 25, She would have to be unique in looks, dyed hair but not in a way that screams look at me, but rather something that says "I am the kind of girl who would dye her hair"clothes that express who she is, not something that's 'cute', listens to good music and writes some too, helps be the McCartney to my Lennon, nerdish but not to the point where [arbitrary subject] is all she can talk about, intelligent, doesn't say things that secretly annoy me all the time, and not skinny to the point where her ribs stick out.
Edit: also she helps me want to become a better person, and we both balance eachother out without being polar opposites. ed Dec 23, ed Mar 15, On a personal level, the girl of my dreams would be a good listener and would be empathetic to my problems while at the same time being honest and we'd both push each other to improve. We'd bring out each other's strengths, while trying to work with each other's weaknesses.
I'd want her to be strong and independent, but at the same time be there for me when I need it. She would appreciate intense intimacy, but at the same time leave me to explore my own interests when I'm tired of people. While these things are not necessarily bad, she would not spend an inordinate amount of time on make-up and jewelry and cosmetics and fashion; she would be happy with just the way she is and be proud of it.
She wouldn't mind the lack of pets, as I am allergic to dogs and cats. She cannot smoke cigarettes, as I am allergic to that as well. She would be open about sex, and would not be afraid to talk about it, and sex would be passionate and romantic. Money would not be a factor in our relationship; she would stay by my side even in the toughest of economic times.
In general, she would be there in times of joy and times of sorrow. Ideologically, she would also share my compassion for those in dire economic situations and people oppressed and exploited by corporations and bosses and me in political agitation and revolution when the time arises.
She would have genuinely progressive ideals both economically and socially and hold the same disdain for racism, sexism, homophobia, and patriarchy as I do. She would believe that gender, race, and sexuality are all meaningless social constructs that are restrictive and place unneeded stressful expectations on each other.
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She would believe in egalitarianism and economic equality and champion liberty; she would believe in a classless, stateless society free of scarcity and exploitation. She would appreciate art in all forms: visual, auditory, and kinesthetic, such as artwork, music, video games and the electronic arts, etc. She would see technology as a progressive force. She would have positive attitudes towards sex, and would look past negative social stigmas against it, and would work to fight these stigmas. As a parent, she would respect the child as an equal human being; we would not use our authority role as parents as a dictatorship.
We would raise our children to champion liberty and equality and to be assertive against injustice and share the same compassion for those who are oppressed rather than to just accept it. We would NOT send a message to the child "the strong rule against the weak"; she would never use spanking or physical punishment on the child; actually, it's arguably bad to use 'punishment' period.
She would strike the perfect balance between 'permissive' and 'authoritarian'; we would be firm with our children, but at the same time let them have their voice. She would treat our children with love and care, and we would be there for our Describe your ideal match examples if they are in a rough spot.
In regards to interests, she would me in my world and my interests while inviting me to explore hers. Gender roles would not play a part in our interests; i. She would be musically inclined, and preferably be good at singing.
She would appreciate the beauties of nature and we would go traveling, both locally in the United States and to foreign countries.
She would enjoy intellectual discussion on any topic, whether it would be science, social science, math, philosophy, or politics and current events. Whoever this person is, even if a lot of what I wrote above isn't possible, I want her to be my best friend. ed Jul 20, ed Mar 1, Ellen. Darth INTPhoebe said:. Why, why, why, why, why, why????????????? Its just too MUCH! ed Feb 17, It's no longer possible for me to think in terms of perfect matches.
I had what I considered my on paper perfect match and it didn't work. He was everything I could have ever wanted- attractive, brilliant, kind, stable, ambitious, humble, devoted and we shared many of the same interests and perspectives INTJ.
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But for some reason it didn't feel right and I can't even explain why. I've been with far less suitable men and it felt better than with him. ed Dec 19, I want someone who's "one of the guys" but around those they're close to they turn into total sweethearts. I like average weighted because I don't like hugging just muscle not very comfy and I also don't want then to be unhealthy. I actually am intimidated by really masculine guys because I'm quite small, shy, and fragile and I just get this ridiculous underlying fear of being squished like a bug by them.
I like a lot of height though, I enjoy "looking up" to them and it's also quite fascinating for some reason.